Parting is Such Sweet Freedom

Sometimes, it is necessary for people to part company. 

It might feel easier to maintain the status quo, but sometimes, it is in the best interest of both parties to separate.

It  is not always that one party is good or bad, the energy is just not compatible. To hold on traps both parties in a place where they cannot move forward. 

It creates an energy that if not addressed and eliminated, becomes stagnant. 

Like leftover food stored in the back of the refrigerator, what was once a gourmet meal, has lost its flavor and begun to decay.

Sometimes one party is ready to let go and the other refuses to move on. Letting go will always bring the best results.

A clean break can allow, if desired, the parties to come together at a later time when growth and healing has occurred.

An incomplete break (one or both parties are holding on), will prevent both parties from moving forward.

You can make this clean and complete break without the other party’s consent. You have the right to move forward and live your life as you choose.

You should consciously do this whenever you feel strong emotions surrounding a breakup or ending of a friendship or business relationship.

A simple meditation, a letter or cord-cutting ritual can release this energy. 

Forgiveness is also important. Ask to see the soul of the other person. 

You might be surprised. A mean bully can be hiding a tiny fearful being that needs to feel loved and safe.

You can send love to the spirit without reattaching to the person. They then have the option of accepting it so they can move forward, or dismissing it and staying where they are.

You, however, will be free to move forward having cut the cord that was bound to your ankle.

Like an elephant who thinks he cannot escape even though he is only tied to a small wooden stake, they may not realize they have the power to move forward.

Taking yourself out of the equation, forces them to deal with what they, alone, have created. 

What another person does to you, whether it be good or bad, is about them, and who they are.

Don’t take it personally. Unforgiveness is not worth the price to your soul. 

Let go, move on and be brilliant. You have the power.

Living Toxic

Most of you are aware that toxins are dangerous.  At high levels, they can be deadly, at lower levels, they weaken and wear you down.

They can come from foods you eat, products you use, your physical environment and relationships.

When you find yourself feeling exhausted all of the time, think about these things.

What kind of foods are you eating? Do you take in a lot of artificial ingredients and chemicals? What are your cosmetics and toiletries made of? Are you breathing in polluted air, indoors or outside? Who do you spend the most time with?

Toxins come from a variety of sources and often you don’t feel their effects until it is too late.

With foods and environmental factors, you can eliminate and then see how you feel.

Personal relationships are harder. Karma may bring you close to people who challenge you and drain your energy.

Once you have learned the karmic lesson, you have no need to hold on to a toxic relationship, in fact, the lesson may be the act of breaking free itself.

Low-level toxins are a part of life on Earth. There are many that occur naturally that are hard to avoid.

You will never eliminate all toxic substances from your life, so do not obsess over it. Do the best you can to eat healthy, clean foods and avoid environmental pollutants.

A relationship that drains you is not in your best interest. Look for the lesson in it, then lovingly move on.

This does not make you a bad person. You have a right to good feelings and radiant health. 

Life on Earth is a gift. If you are not enjoying it, then you are not doing it right. Do not judge yourself for this, few of you are. 

You can always change and try new things while eliminating that which poisons you.

Look for and learn about the toxins you take in every day. At the lowest levels, toxins may make you sick or tired.

At higher levels or years of constant exposure they can kill. All of them. 

Take back your body and spirit. They are your vehicles for learning, growing and fulfilling your destiny on this planet. 

They are the only ones you’ve got. This time. Why not make this time, the best time of your lives. ~Silas

No Worries......

One of the most important things you can do to make your life easier, better and more prosperous, is to eliminate your stress.

When you are trying to accomplish something, it can feel like stress is the fuel that is driving you forward. 

Stress is, in fact, the mud under your feet that slows you down. 

It is good to be determined, and driven, but unless you are running for your life, stress will not help you.

Take that energy and use it. 

Create something. Write down your fears as a story or poem, paint a picture, dance, walk or go to the gym. 

Turn the focus away from your stress and you will find you no longer need it.

From a manifestation standpoint, you are darkening your beautiful vision of the future with clouds of worry.

Most of the storms you envision will not come to pass. So why waste good creative time dwelling on them?

When your fears dissolve, you will find it much easier to do the work you need to do. Chores will have less drama attached, and your body will be healthier.

As we know you worry about your appearance, we will add that reducing stress will keep you from eating when you are not hungry and allow the food you have ingested to be perfectly processed to give your skin a healthy glow and allow your body to easily achieve and maintain perfect weight.

So if you will not reduce your stress to change your life for the better, then do it for your waistline. We will not judge. ~Silas

Your Reality Belongs to You

It can be hard to always keep a positive attitude. You want to visualize the best possible outcome, but those around you are telling you it’s just not likely or not possible.

When this happens, keep smiling. Honor the resistance and know that if you feel affected by it, there is some block or negative place within your consciousness that needs to be moved.

Think about what was said. Why did it bother you?

If you are constantly complaining that those around you are negative, look within. If you are noticing and feeling, then there is something inside of you that believes it to be true.

Take the feeling inward. Try to locate it. Don’t fear it, you are not bringing it to life, you are cleaning it out and releasing it.

Does it stem from a childhood fear? An early work experience? Something said to you by an authority figure you trusted?

That is their reality. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to make it yours.

Release what you don’t want, think about what you do want. Enjoy the feeling as you would a gourmet meal.

Feel all of the grandness of the experience. Touch it, smell it, taste it! Walk around behaving as you would if you already had it. 

What kind of posture would you assume? What attitude would you have? How would you feel when you walked into a room full of people, knowing that you are living your dream?

Do this daily. Remind yourself often. 

Do not let the realities of others invade yours.

Let them enjoy their dramas. Perhaps they like a good challenge. Don’t judge, just thank them silently, for the information they have given you about yourself. 

Use it to create the life of your dreams. Then if they ask, you can share your reality with them.

Another Angle

Not everything makes sense the first time. 

You might hear of a new self-help technique, a new way of creating something new or organizing your life so that it will work better.

Nothing you ever experience is ever lost. Your brain may not acknowledge it at first, but when it is needed, all will make sense.

You may buy a book and read one chapter before putting it away. 

A year later, you hear an idea that sounds amazing.  Something you would like to incorporate into your life.

Then, you remember that you’ve heard this information before. You pick up that dusty book you bought a year ago and read it from cover to cover.

Now it makes sense. You just weren’t ready for it the first time. The presentation may not have appealed to you, until you looked at it in a different way, perhaps from a different angle.

You might glance at a picture on your computer, then navigate to another page. 

Later you come back, having forgotten about it and suddenly, you take a good look.

This time you see interesting details and get certain feelings when you look at it.

You might even discover that it was taken by a photographer, or drawn by an artist you admire.

It might inspire you to do something you hadn’t thought of before.

Never toss any new knowledge as useless.  It might just not be useful to you yet.

You might just need to look at it again, from a different angle.