The Parasite

In most of the animal kingdom, there are those who live by sucking the life force of others. They cannot function on their own. Something in their DNA causes them to develop in such a way, that they must have others around them to take advantage of.

Some humans are like this, but for them it is a choice.

They fall into two categories: those who have not created their own life, and those who create an illusion of a satisfying life.

The first type will often appear exceptionally humble, often lacking self-esteem. They are sweet, often in pain, and they can be exhausting to be around. They do not take your energy because of a premeditated plan, it is just what they naturally do. That are like addicts. Eventually, the energy they get stops giving them a "high" and they simply do it to exist.

The other type knows exactly what they are doing. The worst among then seek out a certain type of host and lure them in with phony charm. They drain one victim dry, them move on to the next with no regard for the one who had been sustaining them. At the most extreme you would refer to his person as a sociopath.

We do not tell you this to frighten you. We simply want you to know. You have a right to keep your energy safe. If a person makes you feel drained of energy, or you feel "high" in their presence and empty when they leave, they might be parasitic. Monitor your feelings around them and control your interactions with them.

As like attracts like, in the end, a parasite will usually attract another parasite of the same or different type and they will drain each other until both are dry. They do have the choice to stop, but addictions are hard to break.

The most important thing we can tell you today, is that if you become the victim of a parasite, it is not a reflection of who you are. Even though a parasite may discard you and leave you to feel like you are nothing, you are someone. Usually you are someone with a big heart, who wants to help, or a trusting soul who, believes the words of a pathological liar.

The parasite has nothing, but that which he or she steals from others. At your very worst, you are better than that. People with loving hearts and gifts and talents are often the chosen hosts of parasites. So, hold up your head and be proud, and do not let it happen again. You deserve better. ~ Silas

Jinnzania's side notes: Throughout my life, I have been both the parasite (although not intentional) as well as the prey. Either way, it was about low self-esteem. I didn't think that I was enough and needed something more. As I moved away from the parasitic mode, and started to transition into a better way of living, I became an ideal host. Vulnerable enough to be easy prey, but with some energy to give. When I ceased to be a suitable host, I was abandoned, and left to die by one who would "love and cherish me forever" and "valued my friendship".

Fortunately, I have real friends with real healing gifts. They gently walked me out of my victim stage, and showed me how powerful I can be.

This past month, memories of past pain have resurfaced. I faced them. I may not have scored a resounding victory, but I stood my ground. Sometimes, that's all it takes <3