This gives you dual responsibility. You must not allow the words of others to affect you. You can shield yourself, walk away or simply do not listen. Know that the words are a reflection of the person who speaks them. You need not be affected by them at all.
This also means that you are responsible for the words you speak. Not every person is properly shielded. Some have issues with confidence and self-esteem. The wrong words spoken at the wrong time, can send a person into an emotional tailspin. They are responsible for the reality they create, but the karma your words create will come back to you, always.
A person who feels well but goes to the doctor and is told he or she is sick, will usually become so. You have great respect for your doctors, many are great healers, but do not let them dicatate how you feel.
People such as doctors, healers, politicians and celebrities are percieved to have words that carry more meaning than the rest of you. This is not true, unless you decide that it is.
Your own words are very powerful. Your negative self talk will always bring about the situation that you are fearing.
Is it hard to earn a living, you say? Then it shall be. Is it a struggle to lose weight? Very well then, enjoy the struggle. You cannot pass the test because you are just not smart enough? Perhaps you will decide that you are smarter when you are re-taking it. That would be a better choice. You doubt your ability to manifest, yet you do it all the time, and brilliantly! So why not manifest something you actually want?
Listen to your self talk. Look at the issues you have. What lies have you told yourself about shortcomings and imperfections?
Would you like to change your life? Then change your story.....and give it a happy ending.
Jinnzania's side notes: As a writer, I have been learning to use my words very carefully. I have been more observant of the words of others and how they affect me as well as how they affect the person speaking. When I find that life has become a struggle, I look to the words and the story I've been telling myself. In the days when I owned birds, I was always made aware of things that I was saying. The birds would repeat them at random. If a bird picks it up, then your'e saying it a lot, or with a lot of emphasis. If you don't have a parrot, find a friend. One who will be honest with you in a loving way (yes, this is possible), and ask them to monitor your words. It can be a very illuminating experience. When something comes up, think about how you might say it differently. Make it a game, have fun with it. If it gets ridiculous, and makes you laugh, then you're already in a better place.
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