Choosing Words of Love

Words, words,words....your language has so many, and yet you apply meanings to older words and expressions that they were never meant to have.

You, then, turn a neutral word, into a bad one.

Our, "for instance" for today, is the term "politically correct." Having watched your politics, we might note that using that word in the expression was probably dooming it to fall into the "bad" category.

Words are neutral. All words. It is the thought intent you put behind them that makes them good or bad. Either way, they will manifest when repeated, so use them cautiously and immerse yourself in the best language you can.

The words, "politically correct" were designed as a way to show respect to all people of different, races, religious beliefs, physical and mental abilities and political affiliations.

When you say, "I'm tired of being 'politically correct' what you are saying is that you do not wish to show respect to those who fall into these categories. 

Not what you meant, perhaps? The words have been so watered down and overused that they have lost their meaning. 

Or do you mean you do not respect those of different religions as yours, but it's not ok to make fun of people with physical challenges. 

We would encourage you to drop these words from your vocabulary. Say what you mean. If you do not care about women's rights or the feelings of those born with Down's Syndrome then say it. 

You will not get as much respect if you do not preface it by saying, "I know it's not 'politically correct' to say this, ....." but at least you are being honest about your feelings. 

You may be prejudiced, you may be racist or sexist. Most of you are to a small degree. It is the result of your belief in separation. You lash out at those who have qualities you do not like about yourself so that you don't have to deal with resolving your own issues. That is hard work. Much easier to blame these people or those. 

When you find yourself being "anti" this or that, ask yourself what qualities of this or that, you possess and want to eliminate.

Standing behind words or spiritual or political beliefs with others who feel the same way does not absolve you of personal responsibility. When you leave this world an have to be accountable for your life, you cannot get out of it by saying, "my pastor said, or my congressman said....." When you open your mouth, or type words on your keyboard, ask yourself, "Are my words helpful and kind, or mean spirited and self-serving?"

One day, when you have to defend them, you will find yourself standing alone. Will you still be as bold?
 
When you find yourself being a "pro" instead of an "anti" you will have a lot more peace in your life and feel good about who you are and what you stand for.~Silas

Beltane Blessings

As you move from the newness of Spring into the unknown of Summer, you must walk in faith. Sacrifices of time and preparation will be asked of you, in order that your journey be safe and fulfilling.

Just as you trim away the new growth of a plant so that it may grow fuller, so you must let go of the old, outdated ideas that have held you back, such as the idea that there are limits to what you can do. 

As a race, you have many in the forefront who are discovering that the only limits you have are those which have been fearfully ingrained into your imagination. 

It is time to let go of these. Release past family patterns and heal your energy and  honor your ancestors who have made sacrifices to allow you to come to this place and time.

Have faith, that as you release, a newer stronger you is being created. Like a well-pruned plant, you will become strong and solid and grow in all directions.

The only limits you have will come from the container or space in which you plant yourself.

These are constructed by your reoccurring thoughts and words that are negative. You have used them in the past to protect yourself, but in doing so, you have created a shield made of sand. It will only crumble and the grains will get in your eyes.

Serve the Earth by becoming the best person you can be. Make apologies when you must, but no excuses. You are not here to be perfect, you are here to learn and grow.

Let go of what does not serve you, walk in faith, and you will have a bountiful harvest very soon.

Blessed Beltane ~Silas

How Far Out Shall You Go?

If you are reading these words, you probably have a spirituality that is open and accepting of things that fall outside of what your society thinks of as “normal.”

Perhaps you need more drama in your life and are looking to start a conflict. 

We cannot help those of you in the latter category. We hope you find your choices happy and fulfilling.

To the former, we say, “Good for you,” it is such a relief to take a small step out of the closet. 

Do you, simply, not go to a conventional church and have a few friends who think as you do? Do you meditate? Cast spells? Read blogs written by fairies?

Taking those steps can be hard, but the more “out” you get the more you can sigh with relief at not needing to hide yourself.

The friends who are true friends will understand. Some will even ask questions or join you in your spiritual activities. 

Others will, simply, fall out of your life. When that happens, you will feel that huge sense of release, as though a giant rubber band has just snapped. You will also find that for each person who exits your life, two or more will enter.

The energy you spend hiding yourself can be used for much more inspirational and creative pursuits.

You will find that friends who have been an enriching part of your life will not care or have suspected your wonderful weirdness all along. 

Exit the closet at your own pace. Test the environment to be sure that you are ready for the emotional impact of your choice.

Then run, strut, leap and dance your way out of the closet! Chances are, you will not be dancing alone. ~Silas