One popular ritual in learning to love yourself is looking in the mirror and saying, "I love you!"
This may result in laughter or tears depending on where your level of self-esteem.
Don't rush the process. Forcing a relationship will only build resistance, even if the relationship is with yourself.
Gaze in the mirror and find what you love the most. Do you have pretty eyes? Full thick hair? High cheekbones? Or a Charming smile?
Pick one thing and focus on that. Allow your vision and heart to soften. You will soon see past the surface appearance and into your amazing soul.
If your Beloved were having a confidence crisis, would you not make the effort to assure them they are loved?
You deserve no less. As you love yourself you glow and become more attractive to those around you. And your new higher vibration will attract the resources to create the life of your dreams.
It all works together like magic. Because it is magic. ~Silas
To love yourself, means taking the time to properly care for yourself. What is more loving, to grab a candy bar when hunger strikes, or lovingly cut fruits and vegetables to create a flavorful, tasty satisfying meal?
A clean house doesn't happen because you wish for it. You must face the soiled spots and dirty dishes to create a haven for yourself and others you love.
These extra steps do not have to be agonizing and laborious, they can be taken in joy as you focus on the final outcome. You are worth it. You are worth the effort. You are your Beloved. Show love to yourself in this way.
Anyone can love a beautiful, colorful butterfly, but it takes a special, joyful, amazing kind of soul to see a caterpillar and love it through its transition process.
And it makes the transition all the more spectacular.
Love yourself as you are, right now, and as your wings unfurl and take the air, your love will only multiply until it reaches infinity.~Silas
When you have a bad moment, too often you declare that it is the theme of the day. You declare that you are having a "bad day." It might be a small bit of spilled coffee or a traffic jam before work, but the events are usually isolated unless you connect the dots.
For yourself, you might just give up and call the day ruined.
But you are not just you. You are your beloved, your best friend and soulmate. If your beloved stood before you having a rough time, would you tell them to just "give up" and try again tomorrow? Or would you smile at them, speak encouraging words and do everything in your power to cheer them up until you can feel the energy of their vibration lifting ever higher, as they forget why they were upset in the first place.
If you can do this for another, you can do this for yourself. When you feel sad, find ways to make yourself smile. Think of something funny, snuggle with a pet or break into song.
Make this a habit and you will walk around with a high vibration that will attract only the best and most delightful things into your life.
You will soon find that you cannot tolerate vibrating in a low place and you will learn to quickly make yourself smile and you will see your life for the amazing, blissful journey that it is. ~Silas
You often underestimate the importance of self-love. You know it is a spiritual necessity, but like doing housework or taking care of your physical bodies, you avoid it because it is work.
When you show yourself love, it can be work. Just as it can be work to show love to another. But what do you feel when you are on the receiving end of that love, that leap in your heart as your beloved walks into the room, that squeal of delight at yet another token of affection? It feels wonderful, of course, it makes you walk around in a sea of bliss.
What if you discovered that your perfect love was always nearby and would never leave you and wanted nothing more than to make you the happiest person on Earth?
It is time to go on a blind date. A date with someone you have been around, but never really met. Someone who will love you so much that fairy tale characters will want to read about you.
That someone IS you.
This relationship is going to be fun, romantic, sensual and sexual. How can it not be, you are starting a relationship with a person who knows you as well and sometimes better than you know yourself?
Spiritual leaders are fond of telling you that you should love yourself, but they don't always tell you how to do it.
So let us begin! On this day in 2017, pledge to start a relationship that is a whirlwind, and yet stable, wildly romantic, with a touch of philosophy, emotional support and comfort.
It is time to fall in love with you! ~Silas
