Changing Into Yourself

Sometimes when you change, you do not become a different person. You become the person you really are.

That person that you have hidden from others. That person that you have been suppressing to do your job or find the right relationship. 

Spend time with yourself every day. Learn to be who you are and when you find yourself suppressing your personality around others, seek out those who allow the "real you" to come out.

You will have people in your life for whom you must "tone it down," just a little. Don't discount them all as they may have something to share and enhance your life. Just don't define yourself by those relationships.

Take some time to experience the wild, untamed, joyful and passionate you, uncensored and without boundaries. If you do this often enough, you will always be able to come back to that place no matter what the world throws at you. 

Enjoy yourself! Earth is an amazing playground! ~Silas

Create Joy Now!

There are three ways to deal with the negativity the world has to offer. 

The first and most popular, for some reason, is to immerse yourself in the negativity and allow it to bring your vibration down.

The second is to hide from all negativity as though it is a toxic plague that will kill you if you don't seal all your doors and windows and hide inside your home.

The third way is acceptance that you are the creator of your own life experience and have the ability to encounter negativity and not be moved by it.

You can take action as needed, or walk away, but the situation does not affect who you are. 

It is not a powerless shutting down of the senses, so that you cannot see the scary thing, but an eyes open encounter which allows you to access the situation, deal with it and whip out your magic wand like Glinda and say, "Be gone, you have no power here."

Vibrating in fear an misery will not improve your life, only a vibration of love and joy will do that.

You are a child of the Divine Creator. It is time to accept your place in the royal family. It is your right and your responsibility to bring joy and prosperity to this planet. 

Now, take out your wand and get to work! ~Silas

Loving Now

To love yourself, means taking the time to properly care for yourself. What is more loving, to grab a candy bar when hunger strikes, or lovingly cut fruits and vegetables to create a flavorful, tasty satisfying meal?

A clean house doesn't happen because you wish for it. You must face the soiled spots and dirty dishes to create a haven for yourself and others you love.

These extra steps do not have to be agonizing and laborious, they can be taken in joy as you focus on the final outcome. You are worth it. You are worth the effort. You are your Beloved. Show love to yourself in this way.

Anyone can love a beautiful, colorful butterfly, but it takes a special, joyful, amazing kind of soul to see a caterpillar and love it through its transition process.

And it makes the transition all the more spectacular. 

Love yourself as you are, right now, and as your wings unfurl and take the air, your love will only multiply until it reaches infinity.~Silas

Stealing Back Your Joy!

It is always amusing and amazing to see how eager you are to give your power away. Any little thing can disempower you. 

A person may cut you off in traffic, someone around you might be in a bad mood. And suddenly, you are sad, depressed, or even angry.

They have stolen your joy away. It is as though your joy is dependent on the perfect day, the perfect circumstances and all the right people showing complete consideration and kindness toward you.

We question you: If these people are acting so badly, why would you give them joy? Why would you give them the power to make you feel bad if they are behaving so badly, why do you even give them a moment's consideration?

Your joy and inner peace belong to you. You are in complete control. No matter what happens, you cannot have another "steal" them. Things will happen. Milk is spilled, the workday is busy, people get sick and sometimes die. 

You can feel the emotion, process it, but unless you permit it to be taken, your joy will stay within you.

Do not simply, let life happen to you. Jump into the pool of life and make a huge, deliberate and beautiful splash. 

When you make feeling good a habit, feeling bad will become an unnatural state. 

As you strive to show yourself love, stay connected to your inner peace and joy. You would want nothing less for your beloved. 

It is an energetic form of hygiene that will keep your soul sparking! ~Silas

Try a Little Joy

There are many things available to you, right now, that can raise your vibration immediately.

You would likely engage in them because they are enjoyable, yet many of you have come to associate them with shame and guilt. Either you should not be doing them at all, or you should be doing something more responsible.

Laughter and smiles will give your vibration a great boost, yet you have expressions such as, "Get serious!" and "Stop fooling around." The act of "fooling around" can make you happy and happy gets you closer to Heaven on Earth. 

Rest is something of which you also have a negative opinion. 

"Get up, already! Stop being so lazy!" Does this sound familiar? Your body, mind and spirit need opportunities to rest and recharge. The more quality rest you get, the more productive your Earthly and Spiritual work will be.

SEX! Yes! Now we have your attention. Your religions have ruined this one for you. The state of euphoria you achieve when you have an orgasm is similar to the feeling of bliss and ultimate pleasure that many achieve through deep meditation. It is, in a sense, a few seconds of "Heaven on Earth." The most beautiful part is: You always have a willing partner, just look in the mirror.

That is why religious leaders fight to control it. If they didn't, you would believe that there were many ways to experience Divine energy and that you didn't need them at all. They tell you sex and self-love are shameful and immoral. Sacrifice now and get to Heaven later. 

Yet, you are told that there will be a Heaven on Earth. "As above, so below." What kind of Heaven will you create on Earth? One of deprivation and sacrifice? Or one of joy and bliss?

The biggest sin you commit is judgement and the person you most frequently judge is you. 

There is no sin in seeking joy as long as it does not harm another. Try a bit of joy today. It will not hurt, we promise. ~Silas

Enjoying the Journey

You are always looking for the end: reaching that goal, finding that answer, or finishing that project. 

Do you know what is really at the end? Death, transition and the leaving of your Earthly body and ceasing to play this game of life, is what awaits you at "the end."

Would you not like to have a bit more joy and fun before that happens? 

Do you take a nature walk simply to reach the end of the path?

Stop for a minute. Look around you. Know that it is possible to enjoy every step of your journey. You may not be on the path you desire, but that doesn't mean the path you are on must be terrible.

Find the joy in little things. Fresh air in your lungs, the smell of a flower, a picture or video that makes you laugh, a hug from a friend or the giggle of a baby.

Look for beauty. Seek out what makes you smile. You can still move down the path and enjoy yourself right here and now. 

You may even choose to stop and take a break. That is a choice you are allowed to make.

Appreciate everything around you and your life will be filled with abundance. Love everything around you and that love will come back to you multiplied. Play a game of hide and seek with Joy. Joy will find you every time.

Why wait for the end of your life? Start the celebration right now, and keep the party going always! ~Silas

Fairy Happy Holidays

We have a secret to tell you. 

Those who tell you that  you must celebrate a holiday in a particular way due to their beliefs are trying to get a reaction out of you.

You do not need to respond.

Like children, some people need attention. When a child misbehaves but does not endanger himself or others, sometimes it is best to just ignore them.

Another tactic is to set a good example. Spread cheer and joy and good wishes to others. Wish them well even if they tell you that you are "wrong."

Simply, smile as you would to a mischievous child and move along to things that bring you joy.

If you would like to educate, do so with love. To angrily shout back accomplishes nothing and will only serve to divide at a time when people should be coming together to celebrate.

No one can destroy your holiday experience without your permission. 

Refuse to give it to them and move on to more important things.

We wish you the happiest of holidays, and know that every day can be a happy, holy day if you allow it. ~Silas

Three Things to Remember

As you move down the path of life, you will find that there are three elements involved in the journey. It was planned (with your permission) to be this way.

The first element is your life’s purpose. This is the map that guides you in a general direction. You have a choice of roads to take, but they all lead to the same place, unless you turn from your purpose. As your purpose was your choice, you will find your life more difficult when you do this.

Your clever, magnificent soul, will find creative and powerful ways to bring you back to your purpose, most of which you will not find pleasant, so best to stay on track.

The second element is work. Work is the walking. You can decide to take a steeper, winding path and work harder, or a smooth, level, straight path that will require less effort, but whichever you choose, work is necessary. This may come to you as study, dedication or a day job that will give you the resources to achieve your goal. Ideally, your path or goal will become your job, but you may have some learning to do along the way. Learning and study make the experience of your life’s work more meaningful and easy.

Your soul may have decided to challenge you a bit before you reach this point. Trust it. When your soul made these plans for this incarnation, it had a really good vantage point. 

The third element is pleasure. These are the flowers and trees along the path. The sweet forest creatures that land on your shoulder or nuzzle against you. Life is not meant to be suffering. Those with lots of money can suffer, those with few possessions can feel joy and appreciation and a love for life. How much you experience these little (and big) joys is up to you. 

To stay in balance, all three elements are necessary. Life becomes stressful and unbalanced when one of them is focused on to the exclusion of the others. 

For example, you focus only on your life’s purpose and do not allow yourself to rest or have fun. You will get there, but life will always be a struggle.

You can focus only on work and feel empty inside because your life has no meaning and you are not headed in a purposeful direction.

You can get lost in play and fun and become addicted to the experience, again due to the emptiness of a life without direction.

Fortunately, the remedy is as easy as, just stopping destructive behavior and seeking balance. Your guides and angels (and we of the Fae kingdom) want you to have success. Just ask, and we will help you find your balance.

All work and no play (or the opposite) negates your purpose for being on this beautiful planet. Find your balance and you will find your bliss. ~Silas

Little Commitments

Changing your life is a complex business. You may find yourself stopping and starting, committing to something new, and then forgetting about it the next day. 

This is in your nature. Routines and constant repetition are what will bring you success. Practicing an instrument or a new song or faithfully visualizing while repeating affirmations takes determination, but it is the best way to get there. 

You resist change because you want this routine. Your current routine, or lack thereof, is comfortable and feels safe, but it is not bringing you that which you desire. Your spirit knows that routine is the key to success, so you tend to fall into routines, even unhealthy ones. Your change will ideally become a new routine. In order to get there, however, you must break with the old one.

It is the most challenging thing you can do, but the doing will change your life. Hopefully in a good way if you are making positive choices. 

It takes several weeks to ingrain a new habit. This is what can be discouraging. That is a long time to be disciplined; to wake up early or turn off your television. It is a long time to spend without your favorite snacks or foods that are tasty, but not healthy.

Give yourself a smaller commitment. Try your new thing for 1 day. Commit to that day and do what you hope will become part of your life. 

When you are done, celebrate. Pat yourself on the back. Then try for two days. If you don’t succeed, relax. Try again another day.

Keep adding more days to the commitment until the new habit has become a part of your life.

Then add another goal and use the same process.

Celebrate your little successes and jump back in and try again when you do not succeed. 

Ask why you do not succeed on some days. They may give you the answer you need to reach your goal.

If you are alive on Earth at this time, you are among the elite of souls. Many on both sides of the veil are pushing for you.

Do not allow small setbacks to deter you. You are here to grow and achieve. Success is your birthright, prosperity is always around you.

Own your divinity, and never give up. Graduation day will be glorious. ~Silas