Many of you, allow others to take all of your energy,
time and your peace of mind. You do this, falsely believing that you are
showing love to the others around you.
You believe that setting boundaries is an act of
aggression and not loving at all.
Boundaries can be aggressive if you set them on someone
else’s property, but they can also be an act of self-love.
Telling those around you where your energetic borders are
sets a good example of how you want others to treat you.
When you walk into the home of a friend, you see the way
they do things, even if their ways are different from yours, you honor and
observe them.
The same thing happens when you show others that they are
not allowed to invade your personal energy.
If you do not set these boundaries, the other person may
invade your space without meaning to do so. It is like setting them up to fail
so that you can resent and be angry with them.
When you draw the lines clearly, there is understanding.
You complete this understanding by showing that you respect their boundaries as
well.
Then you can sit on the “fence” and have a delightful
time together and share fun, loving communications. ~Silas.
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