The Perfect Gift For You

The greatest gift you can possibly give to yourself is you.

You are Divine energy expressing itself in a manner that the most perfect aspect of you has chosen.

Your flaws, as you call them are in place because you have put them there to be the perfect vehicle for you learning experience on Earth during this lifetime.

Your talents, and you all have them, are the cherry on top of the most satisfying cake with the richest, creamiest icing that your taste buds are capable of perceiving. Enjoy them, explore them and share them with the world.

Make time every day to turn inward. Find yourself amid all that your society has told you that you must be.

Find the real you. This is the soulmate and partner you have been seeking. You would not sell this magnificent being short by entering poorly chosen or abusive relationships. 

To attract the highest quality mate, you must first become that. And to become that, you must meet and fall in love with the most perfect mate of all……yourself. ~Silas

Boundaries of Love

Many of you, allow others to take all of your energy, time and your peace of mind. You do this, falsely believing that you are showing love to the others around you.

 

You believe that setting boundaries is an act of aggression and not loving at all.

Boundaries can be aggressive if you set them on someone else’s property, but they can also be an act of self-love.

Telling those around you where your energetic borders are sets a good example of how you want others to treat you.

When you walk into the home of a friend, you see the way they do things, even if their ways are different from yours, you honor and observe them. 

The same thing happens when you show others that they are not allowed to invade your personal energy. 

If you do not set these boundaries, the other person may invade your space without meaning to do so. It is like setting them up to fail so that you can resent and be angry with them.

When you draw the lines clearly, there is understanding. You complete this understanding by showing that you respect their boundaries as well.

Then you can sit on the “fence” and have a delightful time together and share fun, loving communications. ~Silas.

A Party in Purgatory

If you want to be happy in Heaven, you must first have a party in Purgatory.

When you want to make a bad situation better, you do not have to wallow in the misery of your old situation.

Smile frequently. Think of it as a Hollywood adventure story. You may be going through dense, scary jungle, but treasure could be right around the next corner.

Lottery wins, amazing job offers and meeting the love of your life, are things that often happen overnight or with little warning.

Everyday, wake up excited that an amazing miracle is headed your way.

If you knew that you were winning the lottery tomorrow, would it seem so bad to be waiting on a difficult customer or being stuck in traffic?

No, it wouldn't. You would be operating with your head in a happy place and transforming not only your own energy but the energy of those around you.

Perhaps, your dream will come true in two days, or a month, you have still remained happy and transformed your circumstances for the better, in the meantime.

Imagine what miracles might be coming your way. Play with them in your head, capture the feeling and ride that wave!

You will find them much more quickly riding your surfboard than pouting on the sand. ~Silas

Parting is Such Sweet Freedom

Sometimes, it is necessary for people to part company. 

It might feel easier to maintain the status quo, but sometimes, it is in the best interest of both parties to separate.

It  is not always that one party is good or bad, the energy is just not compatible. To hold on traps both parties in a place where they cannot move forward. 

It creates an energy that if not addressed and eliminated, becomes stagnant. 

Like leftover food stored in the back of the refrigerator, what was once a gourmet meal, has lost its flavor and begun to decay.

Sometimes one party is ready to let go and the other refuses to move on. Letting go will always bring the best results.

A clean break can allow, if desired, the parties to come together at a later time when growth and healing has occurred.

An incomplete break (one or both parties are holding on), will prevent both parties from moving forward.

You can make this clean and complete break without the other party’s consent. You have the right to move forward and live your life as you choose.

You should consciously do this whenever you feel strong emotions surrounding a breakup or ending of a friendship or business relationship.

A simple meditation, a letter or cord-cutting ritual can release this energy. 

Forgiveness is also important. Ask to see the soul of the other person. 

You might be surprised. A mean bully can be hiding a tiny fearful being that needs to feel loved and safe.

You can send love to the spirit without reattaching to the person. They then have the option of accepting it so they can move forward, or dismissing it and staying where they are.

You, however, will be free to move forward having cut the cord that was bound to your ankle.

Like an elephant who thinks he cannot escape even though he is only tied to a small wooden stake, they may not realize they have the power to move forward.

Taking yourself out of the equation, forces them to deal with what they, alone, have created. 

What another person does to you, whether it be good or bad, is about them, and who they are.

Don’t take it personally. Unforgiveness is not worth the price to your soul. 

Let go, move on and be brilliant. You have the power.

Rest vs. Laziness

As children, you are often told that you are being lazy when you sit around and do nothing. As adults, you refuse to slow down even when you are ill or tired.

Your body remains in a sluggish, tired state on a regular basis. You make plans but lack the energy and enthusiasm to carry them out.

Most of you take better care of your automobiles than your bodies.

You would not run your car's engine all day long and not expect the parts to wear or the gas to run out. You give it the best gas and the highest quality service you can afford. You drive your car as you need to, then park it in a cool garage if, possible.

Your bodies are often subjected to unnatural schedules and given cheap, inadequate fuel because it is convenient. You attempt to run them from morning until evening with no rest. Then you give your body stimulants to keep it running, when it can go no longer.

Taking a break is not laziness. It is part of the necessary maintenance of your physical vessel. Do not let the guilt or judgement of others keep you from doing what you need to do for your health and well-being.

If you take your resting periods as seriously as your work time, your energy and the quality of your work will improve, and your life will feel easy and balanced. Now put away your computer and take a break. The world will wait for you. ~Silas

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